Reading My Mind

So, Sunday was my birthday....

And, yes, I'm old.  I think I'm in a new age checkbox, so yeah... blech.

Actually, I don't really focus on my age number, so I'm not really bothered by it.  And obviously I don't really feel "old" because what I want to get with my birthday money is a pair of Necomimi Brainwaive Cat Ears.

Come on!  How can you NOT want these.  They do say they are looking at other ear styles.  Maybe I'll hold out for fox ears!

Instant Access - 8/1 - 8/12

Sorry for the quietness around here, folks.  As you saw in my previous post, I was away for a little R&R at my favorite hotel in one of my favorite cities.

The special occasion?  My birthday!

I wore a crazy headpiece for the occasion. 

With a big poofy skirt and sparkly Manolos!

Because we were going away for the trip (and lovely spa time), my gifty-gifts were small but fun... two kate spade iPhone cases I wanted!

Oh, and delicious vegan truffles that were inhaled asap!

I pulled out my favorite luggage - my dreamy Dooney & Burke heart case and packed it with the essentials - books, pink playing cards, a swim suit, strappy sandals and a floaty mullet skirt.

When we got to Asheville, we found the most gorgeous new bookstore - Battery Park Book Exchange & Champagne Bar.

Vintage books, champagne bar and dog-friendly.  It really is perfection

The Grove Park Inn Resort & Spa is really amazing.  Filled with history, gorgeous furnishings and a world-class spa.

And you can't beat the views...

Asheville is an amazing town for food, especially if you are vegan.  We ate at all our favorites including a new addition, Rosetta's Kitchen.  The vegan queso is truly delish as was the tempeh reuben that I had.

Did I mention the liquid truffle and the sipping chocolate with rose from French Broad Chocolate Lounge?

Hotel picnic!

It was an amazing few days.  Can I go back now???

I had some fancy fingers too - this is Deborah Lippmann's Glitter In The Air over Essie's Borrowed & Blue.

And the best "pretty pretty princess magical unicorn" pink glitter manicure - OPI's Teenage Dream.

I also rocked the messy ballerina bun.

But now I'm back to reality and dealing with boring stuff like car repairs and catching up with work.  But the trip isn't a distant memory yet.  I'm still lingering in the birthday fun vibes.

Hope you had a happy week too!

Bits and Baubles and Birthdays

Next Friday is my birthday. And I'm going to be oldy-old-old.   Yep... 39, baby!

Not an official "big" birthday but supposedly a traumatic one, right? 

NAAAHHHHHH!!!

Personally I don't think much about my age, but hey, I'm willing to leverage it for nice gifts, right?!?!

There are always a million things I want but if I had to pick what's top of mind right now, I'd say these lovely things:

First off, I MUST have these heeled bunny slippers from Streetzie, preferably pink and black.

Gah!  Cuteness!

Also, cupcakes.  I'm really really dying for a good (vegan) cupcake. Sure cupcakes may be ubiquitous to some, but there isn't a vegan bakery on every corner here in the South.   Please ship me some Babycakes love.

I'm totally into Spotify and really want to get an upgrade. Need to make that happen soon. I work in advertising, I don't want to hear ads all day.

A Cartier Love Bracelet in gold or rose gold... yeah, it's a few grand, no biggie right?

Or, you know, nail polish (or some Tinker Toys, heh heh)... I'm particularly smitten with this China Glaze Party Hearty glitter polish.

A little bit of Memento Mori (ala Wendy Brandes) might be appropriate

And of course, I'll always take SHOES (or Bergdorf gift cards, dontcha know)

But, all this list-making aside, I'm most excited because I will already get to spend a few days in a lovely hotel with a lovely spa massage scheduled. My Sweetie and I get to enjoy time in one of our favorite cites and I'm super excited!

Yeah for birthdays!!!

Silence is Golden

Sorry about all the quietness around here. It was my birthday on Thursday and I took Thursday and Friday off of work. We don't do a big celebrations for birthday's or holidays but the hubby did decide we should drive over to Asheville to have lunch in our favorite restaurant.

It seems a bit crazy to drive over 2 hours just for lunch. We planned on staying longer but a big storm rolled in so we had to bail.

My favorite restaurant anywhere is now Laughing Seed Cafe. The restaurant is vegetarian/vegan but it is the best food anywhere. And the most inventive restaurant around. It get so bored with seeing the same five ingredients show up over and over no matter how good or inexpensive the place. Laughing Seed tries new things! It's really the best food and get rated #1 in the city all the time.

We had their amazing sushi of the day and then hempnut burgers with their delicious jalepeno fries.

Even though we were sort of stuffed, you can't pass up their desserts. I love their chocolate raspberry torte but today we tried the Maya chocolate cake. OMG, so good!

We don't do a lot of gifts, because we figure we get stuff all the time but I was surprised with aWendy Brandes Asterisk ring to add to my Swear Ring set. I can't believe those sneakys surprised me!

Now we're just doing a massive cleaning inside and out. I've been polishing silver and clearing out books and stuff for donations and an overhaul of my bathroom cabinet. Why do I have 20 mini-bottles of shampoo and conditioner? I feel like a hoarder!

Anyways, I'm going to get back to my laundry. Thank you all for the birthday wishes!!!

Leo Redux

A while back I found this video that shows how to make a Leo fall in love with you...

Some people know how to do the whole "good gifts" thing really really right.

Hence my big birthday present... the vintage epulets and bicorn hat I adored a while back...

Swooning!

They Say It's Your Birthday

I don't usually make birthday lists because I tend to be bad and buy stuff for myself, but....

Here are some things I have on my virtual wish list...

Poochie Pink Birthday by Princess Poochie on Polyvore.com

* A yellow or rose gold and silver hand-stamped Crown wax seal The Love Story necklace with a 24" chain

* A Diana and/or a Holga camera (pink version optional)

* I have a bunch of pictures that need to get framed

* Antoni & Alison skirts - I love the patterns they have.

* Topshop Kameron brogues in pink and gold. Why did I wait so long???

* Wode Paint perfume. Not even sure how this smells but it's so cool!

* Gentry de Paris Victorian Corset Boots. Of course I totally need these.

* Femme Sud Diary book clutch. I'd take a turquoise 1st place wristlet too.

* Pink carnations... or carnation perfume. Super sweet.

Now I know I sound terribly greedy but, these are the kinds of things I want to get for myself, so maybe it's more like a "treats for me" list than a "hope I someone buys me all this" list.

A Public Service Announcement

As you may know, we're big animal lovers around here. We have cats and dogs and, obviously, chickens.

Most of our pets have come from the Humane Society or were strays or were from local rescue groups. I've also worked with and around animals for, basically, my whole life. I've interned at veterinary hospitals, worked at Miami MetroZoo with all kinds of exotics for over five years, at stables and more. So you can say that I feel pretty comfortable around animals.

I've only ever had one experience where I felt uncomfortable near an animal. Our house has a very open yard and backs up to some woods. One night last year just around around dusk the hubby spotted a fox way out in the yard. Now we get lots of deer and groundhogs and more around our place so this didn't surprise me that much. Growing up I used to see foxes very closely almost every morning while I walked my dog. When I went outside to get look at this one I noticed it was acting very strange. I couldn't put my finger on it at first but I actually got scared a bit. And I never ever get scared around an animal.

Even though we were grilling out, I insisted we both go back inside for a while. When I analyzed the encounter, I think it was that, while the fox was way out by the brush and could have run off into the dark, it didn't. It actually stood there and looked at us. Then it walked toward us a bit. It was totally wrong. Our area has had a number of rabies reports over that past few years so, even though it wasn't confirmed, it was a great possibility that this fox was infected. I didn't stick around to find out.

Many animals can get and be carriers of rabies and it's often not easy to tell if they are infected. Dogs and cats will typically show symptoms and die within 10 days but a raccoon can have the infection for years and not show it. It's hugely important that you get your pet the vaccine (and it's a law anyway in most places) to save them from getting the infection. In the US cats are more infected than dogs are. I don't condone having your cat's outdoors but if you do they should be vaccinated!

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So where's the PSA? Well, when I got home the other night there was stray kitty coming out from under my garage. Being the impulsive animal lover (and rescuer) I dropped everything and went over to see if I could catch the kitty. She was young-ish and sweet and it didn't take long to get her to come near me. But, in retrospect, I was impulsive. I rushed it which I should have known better. But in my haste to get her caught and cared for, I always worry less about myself. And I don't worry about getting hurt either.

So I picked her up.

She was not happy about that at all and struggled to get away. Typically I tried to get a better hold to keep her from getting away (possibly to just run out to the road) and to get her onto our porch so we could crate her.

Doing this in short sleeves was probably not the best choice but if I had gone into the house to get gloves and a coat she may have gone away. Scratches I don't mind. I have had so many scratches (and, frankly, bites) over the year that I don't even notice the scars any more. And don't tell my friend who works in a doctor's office - I never get infections.

So, the kitty struggled... and yeah, she bit me. I'm so smart.

Of course, I did let her go at that point because I was bleeding. And the hubby was really not happy with me. He wasn't any happier when I went back out to try and get her too, after I got my jacket at least. By then it was getting dark and I couldn't see her anymore.

But the big question was, do I go and get the Rabies shot?

I'll admit it. I wasn't looking forward to that. I didn't really feel that this kitty was infected but, since untreated rabies is pretty much 100% fatal, I thought it just might be a good idea to be safe.

I went to my doctor the next day to have the bite looked at. Luckily I have had a tetanus shot in the last five years (or unluckily - I'm a klutz much of the time. I admit it), so I didn't need to deal with that. They did put me on a course of antibiotics since cat bites can be pretty "dirty". And yep, they said I would need to go to the emergency room/hospital triage to get reviewed for the rabies shots.

Awesome.

Have you ever been to the emergency room? As I said, I'm a klutz, so this was my third time. All I can say is bring a book. A long book. And some water. And some antibacterial hand wipes or something. It ain't fun. And you will have to wait a minimum of like four hours unless you've been shot or something. On the plus side, the doctor was impressed with my immune system as evidenced by my lack of infection at the wound.

So, yeah, I was going to have to get the series of shots to prevent rabies from potentially killing me. That's right, I said series. If you didn't know it, it isn't just one shot one time. Oh no. It's a whole bunch of shots over five rounds. I had read up on the process in advance and I was happy that it was no longer a series of shots into your stomach. Because dying may have been preferable. No, it was in the arm, leg and butt. Whoo Hoo!

But even I was a bit surprised when they came out with 11 needles. ELEVEN! Aaack!

In the end, it wasn't horrible. It wasn't fun but it wasn't the worst thing. I'm a scrapper.

Even more exciting is that I get to go back four more times, including two times this week. Which is a hell of a way to spend my birthday week. This week is getting jam packed with fun - two more nights waiting to get shots at the triage, a night taking Napoleon for a follow-up at the vets and a meeting. At least one night we'll go out to dinner to celebrate. And I'll have plenty of time to read. I just started The Queen's Fool. I'll probably finish it before the week is out too, with all of the waiting I have in store for me.

But if I finish my book I'll be able to use my new b-day gift -

Image by breamarie

Yep! The hubby got me the Kindle I'd been pining for! I can't wait to use it. It's so light I can carry it around all the time. Now I just need to decide what books to download to it.

I'm so excited!

So what did we learn here?

1. Don't pick up stray kitties unless you are covered (although I'd probably do it again. I'm dumb like that)
2. Get your pets vaccinated
3. Always have something to read

And for good measure - support services to help get more animals vaccinated.